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二十几岁的生命，活力四射，生机勃勃;二十几岁的人生，充满机遇，富有挑战，二十几岁，面临着人生诸多角色的变化，面临着许多选择，二十几岁无疑会决定人的一生，本书旨在指导二十几岁的年轻人活出自己，活出心情，处理好二十几岁时人生应该重点面对的问题。让你在品生活的艰辛、困苦、压力的同时，拥有良好的处世心态，使你的人生在追求完整和完美的过程中熠熠发光。

目  录：

第1 章时间都去哪儿了，别让自己再迷糊了 ····························· 1

认清现实的现状，重视生存的能力 ··········································· 2

不因年轻而高傲，现实要求脚踏实地 ········································ 4

准确定位，用自己的特长求发展 ·············································· 7

安于现状，生活只会是一潭死水 ·············································10

走过的是路，没走过的是人生 ················································13

无悔青春，勇于尝试新的体验 ················································15

别让将来的你看不起现在的自己 ·············································17

人生选择环境，环境推进人生 ················································20

思考致富而不是努力工作致富 ················································22

多点自省，洗去浮躁与冲动 ···················································24

时间是一条河，别在岸边看它流逝 ··········································26

第2 章谁的青春不迷茫，金子也需把自己磨光 ·························29

你或许还不是金子，但要成为发光的种子 ·································30

面对浮华的尘世，要有自己的主见 ··········································32

不要怕找不到出路，要有明确的思路 ·······································34

处在事业的起点，要寻找命运的拐点 ·······································36

要有职业定位，但别让工作把你定型 ·······································38

你会有求于人，但要相信命由己造 ··········································40

没有人比你更重视你自己 ······················································42

即使屡遭打击，自己也先要鼓励自己 ·······································44

第3 章此时你若不去勇敢，未来谁能替你扛 ····························47

别担心自己会失败，迈步路就会在脚下延伸 ······························48

别担心自己无能，最优秀的人就是你自己 ·································50

别担心自己经验少，要学会经营你的优势 ·································52

别担心自己没机遇，创造财富需要慧眼 ····································54

别担心自己没人帮，贵人要靠自己寻找 ····································56

别担心自己没创意，勇于尝试就有机会 ····································58

别担心自己没帮手，共赢才会有发展 ·······································60

别担心自己不专业，有想法就有出头的希望 ······························62

第4 章即使是不成熟的尝试，也胜于胎死腹中的空想 ·················65

本来无望的事，大胆尝试就能有所突破 ····································66

消极悲观的话语，会粉碎你内心的希望 ····································68

只要勇于开始，永远都不晚 ···················································70

上帝的延迟，并不是上帝的拒绝 ·············································72

走自己的路，让别人说去吧 ···················································74

选择你所喜欢的，喜欢你所选择的 ··········································76

人生所有的时间里，“现在”是最棒的 ····································79

从小步开始，增加“走出大步”的可能 ····································81

要为成功找方法，莫为失败找理由 ··········································83

第5 章不是忙碌就有收获，重要的是找到合适的方向 ·················87

忙而不乏味：让自己的职业与兴趣结合 ····································88

忙也要会思考：认清自己想要的是什么 ····································90

忙也要有道理：忙要忙在点子上 ·············································92

忙也需有章法：有理可依、有据可查 ·······································94

忙而有序：把重要的事放在第一位 ··········································96

忙而有效：做事果断决策、善始善终 ·······································98

忙而不盲目：做自己熟练而擅长的事情 ·································· 100

忙而有乐：工作与生活都要当赢家 ········································ 102

第6 章理清思路找到出路，别甘心成为大多数 ······················· 105

按图索骥画不出精彩人生 ···················································· 106

让思想无限接近零缺陷 ······················································· 108

别总跟“志趣相投”的朋友一起 ··········································· 110

时常拧一拧思想的发条 ······················································· 113

依靠他人，永远不能成就杰出的自己 ····································· 115

自我特色是赢得竞争的砝码 ················································· 116

不要淹没在潮流中，要让自己与众不同 ·································· 119

拐个弯会省下更多的时间和力气 ··········································· 121

最合适你的，才是真正最好的 ·············································· 123

敢于走在人先，才能赢在人前 ·············································· 125

走自己的路，才能走别人没走过的路 ····································· 127

第7 章树立你的目标，让自己拥有拼搏方向 ··························· 129

越是卓越的人生越是志向的产物 ··········································· 130

淡漠是半个死亡，愿望是半个生命 ········································ 131

目标清晰明确，盯着目标前行 ·············································· 133

从小目标开始，实现大目标的突破 ········································ 136

先为目标付出，目标只成就不可或缺的人 ······························· 138

用目标给人生带来无穷的力量 ·············································· 141

梦想从身边触手可及的地方寻找 ··········································· 143

第8 章投资一种时间，年轻就是最大的资本 ·························· 147

提升素质，让你的辛苦换来更大的回报 ·································· 148

把时间用在学习上，是最有价值的投资 ·································· 151

尊重时间就是尊重自己的前程 ·············································· 153

盛年不重来，一日难再晨 ···················································· 156

时不我待，摆脱拖延的恶习 ················································· 159

时间像水珠，一颗颗分散开来就会蒸发 ·································· 163

为了错误去后悔是错上加错 ················································· 165

柳比歇夫的时间统计方法 ···················································· 167

第9 章下定一个决心，让自己实现诺言 ································· 171

命运在自己的手里，而不在别人的嘴里 ·································· 172

宁可败给别人，也不能输给自己 ··········································· 174

成功者之所以成功，得益于志存高远 ····································· 176

人之所以能，是因为相信能 ················································· 178

人生的突破，躲在异想天开之后的行动上 ······························· 181

人生的差别，在于能否再坚持一下 ········································ 184

没试过，别以理论解释人生 ················································· 187

命运掷来一把刀，你就要抓住刀柄 ········································ 190

专注做好一件事，不节外生枝 ·············································· 193

从失败中学到聪明，并善加利用 ··········································· 196

第10 章看准一个机会，命运靠自己转弯 ······························ 199

像下跳棋一样想办法“一步登天” ········································ 200

善于识别时机，学会抓住时机 ·············································· 202

抱怨缺少条件，不然何创造条件 ··········································· 205

别空等万事俱备的时候 ······················································· 208

机遇之门只为有准备的人敞开 ·············································· 211

“秀”出自己，赢得机遇的倾心 ··········································· 214

机会与诱惑总会如影随形 ···················································· 216

机遇总是光顾那些善于决断的人 ··········································· 218

醒目地亮出自己而非坐等伯乐发现你 ····································· 220

愚者才等待机会，而智者则造就机会 ····································· 222

第11 章拓展一层关系，让自己相交天下 ······························· 225

多结交比自己优秀的人物 ···················································· 226

“贵人”是送你上青云的好风 ·············································· 228

有意识地建立你的朋友网络 ················································· 231

让第一印象抢滩登陆 ·························································· 234

培养与陌生人“一见如故”的本领 ········································ 237

相逢一笑，尽把恩仇了 ······················································· 240

学会保全他人的面子 ·························································· 243

第12 章坚定一种信念，用最初的心做持久的事 ······················· 247

最大的麦穗，就是身边的那一个 ··········································· 248

人生中最大的敌人是自己 ···················································· 250

为难你的人，其实是你的贵人 ·············································· 252

一个劲敌，在心胸小的人眼里才是羁绊 ·································· 254

竞争并不意味着要打败别人 ················································· 256

小鸭从不介意飞不高，因为游泳它很在行 ······························· 258

家有万贯之财，不如一技在手 ·············································· 261

不盲目执着，放弃需要理智 ················································· 263

习惯若不是最好的仆人，便是最差的主人 ······························· 265

第13 章白手起家正当时，灿烂人生不是梦 ··························· 267

白手起家正当时，灿烂人生不是梦 ········································ 268

处处有黄金，关键在于用心 ················································· 270

雄心和决心是亿万富翁的致富秘诀 ········································ 272

贫穷并不可耻，可耻的是安于贫穷 ········································ 275

在小钱上精明才能培养大富翁的素质 ····································· 278

天上掉馅饼，你必须“站对地方”接 ····································· 280

没有创新的灵感时，不妨先从模仿开始 ·································· 282

利用大家的智慧，赚取无穷的财富 ········································ 285

旁观者的姓名永远爬不到比赛者的计分板上 ···························· 287

互助一年石成玉，合作二年土变金 ········································ 290

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